I'm Julie.
Your expert in women-centered marriage coaching.
I'm a compassionate communication marriage coach for modern women. I bring a unique blend of personal experiences as an executive in corporate turned marriage coach, wife, and former foster mom, along with overcoming my struggles with burnout, mental health, and infertility.
Years ago, while climbing the corporate ladder, I had success on paper and a "boojie" life style, but in my personal life my marriage felt hard. Like contemplating divorce hard. My husband was not interested in going to couples therapy. I felt totally stuck.
After hitting my breaking point, I realized that I need to stop trying to change my husband and instead, work on me.
Today, after 16 years together, we are MADLY in love with each other. Every day truly gets better and better.
That's because I discovered what every ambitious woman has been missing - the art and skill of being able to communicate with compassion.
My mission is to empower courageous women like you to lead your marriage to peace and paradise. You don't need couples therapy to have the marriage you always hoped for. Let's embark on this transformative journey together.
Are you TIRED of having the same ARGUMENTS with your husband, over and over again?
Perhaps you are thinking right now...
"We used to laugh together. WHAT HAPPENED TO US?"
"No matter what I say, he doesn't hear me. I FEEL SO ALONE."
"Why do I keep needing to DEFEND MYSELF?"
"I should be grateful. What's WRONG with me?"
You deserve to find PEACE, FUN, and PASSION in your marriage.
What you truly desire with your husband is...
Being able to resolve conflict with respect, compassion, and ease.
Feeling safe, seen and heard, even if you disagree.
Having an "It's me and you. Nothing else matters" bond with each other.
Being excited for date nights because you have soulful, deep conversations.
Compassionate Communication in marriage is a powerful skill that anyone can learn.
Seeking help with marriage coaching is the SMARTEST INVESTMENT you can make for YOUR HAPPINESS.
Book a no pressure discovery call with me to see if we are a good fit for each other.
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I was a burnt-out, high-achieving professional and felt like I was failing my family. Since then, our relationship has become more loving and compassionate. We've been able to be more open and express our deep feelings in the moment, rather than waiting months after something happened. I'm now able to enjoy everyday life with my family and recognize the beautiful moments we have together. Additionally, I can clearly see the positive changes in my children, which is a reflection of the changes in me.
I thought I was coming to Julie for communication, but I got a lot more.
ANNA TAN
I have been able to take back my power, and give my husband his power back as well.
Working with Julie has been unique in the right kind of way. Her approach is very woman centered, empowerment focused and guides the woman to be in the driver’s seat of her life, first, and to empower and create safe space for the partner second. I resisted this approach at first because I was expecting the man to be the one to support me not the other way around. What I learned is that my husband was there all along. This is about seeing things differently and it works. Julie is genius, courageous and committed to beautiful, supportive, loving relations where everyone wins.
PAM B.
Julie's guidance gave me and my husband the deeper connection we were seeking. She helped me step into my role as a leader in our marriage, where I can support my husband in leading our family.
I'm super thankful to Julie for her help! If you're on the fence about joining her program, I highly recommend it. Her guidance can help take your relationship to the next level!
Believe me when I say you don't need your husband to join a program!
MICHELLE LACH
Paradise isn't a tropical vacation. It's being able to RESOLVE everyday CONFLICT with EASE.
Communication and marriage are the two vital life pillars that you are expected you to be good at, but no one taught you. Not at home, not in school. No wonder 50% of marriages end up in divorce leaving families and broken and in debt!
I'm here to reverse this trend around the world. My soul's purpose is to teach you how to communicate compassionately, so that you can become a magnetic feminine leader at home (and everywhere in life).
Here's what most women don't know. How your husband speaks to you is almost always a reaction to how you are speaking to him, and vice versa.
Let that sink in.
I'm here to tell you this is good news. Because it means you don't need to wait around hoping your husband will change, or do couples therapy (which doesn't work anyway!). You only need to work on yourself. The power is in your hands.
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You've always had the power to LEAD your marriage to PEACE and PARADISE.
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